December 4, 2013
GROCERY SHOPPING!!!! And a bit of a serious talk on the side…
One discussion led to another and I found out that apparently… Jonas was on this ‘assumption’ that I would like him to refrain from talking to girls.
AND. THAT. IS. ABSURD.
I never asked him for that! And apparently, he arrived at that conclusion due to my past ‘curiousness’ and incessant questions about some girls of his past. I guess I can go overboard sometimes; but he knows naman na after I ask about it and know what the history is, I STOP. But apparently for him since he’s not used to a gf that ‘asks’ personal stuff from time to time, he deduced that it was me trying to tell him to stop talking to girls.
I was very disappointed when I learned of this because it’s just so absurd. I would never ask for such a thing! And he apologized. From this point on we had a long talk so that I can make it clear to him and to also remind him to stop making assumptions that I wouldn’t like this or that if I hadn’t explicitly said it. If I send out ‘signals’ then he should ask me and not assume it as absolute.
Man, I must have appeared like such a bitch-y gf to him all this time while he’s on that thought! HAHA! And yet, here he is, still with me!
I asked him that and he said: “I thought it was something I had to give up just to be with you. And so I did so I could still be with you.”
Awwwww…. this guy can really be so sweet, but he was just really on the wrong train of thought :P Haha but at least now, we got it clear.
So ladies and gents, it all boils down to this: COMMUNICATION.
If you ever start to feel something wrong or encounter something problematic, no matter how small or big, TALK. IT. OUT. WITH. YOUR. PARTNER.
Just do it. It will really help. And from time to time try to talk to one another about what your thoughts are in your relationship so that the both of you are like-minded.
All in all, I’m just glad we had this talk :) I may have started shedding tears when I learned that he was thinking such things, but again, I’m just so glad I managed to correct him.
Aaah, this boy <3
December 2, 2013
Hospital. Made a quick trip to the hospital to do another ultrasound test with my doctor—which then turned into a looooong wait.
I only managed to follow up on this now since I was still waiting for my medical insurance (which just arrived days ago). Anyhow, as some of you may already know, I have been diagnosed before about having endometriomas cysts. And this will be the last ultrasound test to check if they’re still there.
Results will be released next Monday and if it’s still there, there’s a high chance that I will have to undergo surgery… but I hope not! :( Here’s to hoping that I receive good news.
Anyways, due to having stayed at St. Luke’s for so long, I arrived home very late so Jonas and I couldn’t make it anymore to the gala premiere :( such a shame. But I’m glad the organizers understood; I had to apologize to them for it. Whew.
December 1, 2013
WELL HELLO DECEMBER! Boy, did the year go by soooo fast!
But I bet everyone’s starting to do the countdown till Christmas :3 Hooray! I can’t wait for Christmas myself! (Though actually, I am a bit nervous since I am going to do a big Christmas dinner for the family and it will be my first! Good luck to me! Haha!)
Anyways, today I received a sudden invite for a gala premiere on this multi-awarded film (Canne’s or something haha) it is named Iloilo and will be showed at Resort’s World.
I was very excited for this since I haven’t been invited to a gala premiere before! Here’s to hoping the movie will be good as it is marketed to be :)